Keeping it Dark
Big/Little Reveal Maddy's Bid Day “We have to keep the fam dark,” these words were spoken by none other than Girard — soon to be my g-big. Running home to Alpha Xi, I knew it was where I belonged, having committed to the sorority through a suicide bid. Sorority people understand the gravity of a suicide bid, and others simply know the risk of not being placed in a sorority at all. The connections I had already made with the AXID girls were undeniable. On bid day, I sprinted straight to Polina; she and I had become very close during recruitment. So I already knew I wanted her to be my big. Taking loads of pictures — as one does on bid day — Girard mentioned to my ginger friend that they liked her, however, they had to keep the farm dark, as she looked at Polina and me taking pictures. Keeping the fam dark refers to dark brunette hair color, as Polina, Girad and I all shared. Unknowingly at the time, I became more and more nervous as the big little reveal was nearing. I knew I wanted...